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I started by asking myself these questions:

  1. What are my highest-value service and resource?
  2. How do I make it more accessible, comprehensive, AND sustainable (for you and I)?
  3. How could I do it so that we also tangibly and directly contribute to others towards collective succulence?
  4. Also, how could I coach more (instead of making opt-ins)? :)

My all-around answer:

Lush Letters + Turn-On Sessions

Your bi-weekly Lush Letters contain:

  • Thoughtful and heartfelt ponderings, stories, and adventures on living as sex- and pleasure-positive fierce lovers (that’s us). So, some would be from my own life, some from my consenting clients’ and subscribers’. #sharedwithconsent

  • A list of what I’m reading, listening to, and watching plus who I’m learning from so you could go directly to the source and support these inspiring fierce lovers.

  • The occasional invitations to sign-up to my 12-week coaching intensives and reminders to book your monthly Turn-On Sessions (by donating what-you-can).

  • Links to the Turn-On Sessions Calendar and non-profits to donate to. (They can be found at the bottom of every email).

Your inbox is sacred.

I only want to be in your inbox with your authentic (pre-informed) consent. Consent can change at. any. time. So, I’ll send a tiny consent-refresher email prior to any program launches so you can choose to opt-out. Don’t worry you’ll keep receiving the bi-weekly Lush Letters. #consentculture #unsubscribeanytime (Please remember to check your email to confirm subscription!)

Important notes on your Turn-On Sessions:

  • It’s an individual, 2-hour-long, 1-on-1 coaching session with me. It’s meant ONLY for my subscribers who may need a one-off coaching support or access to regular support affordably.

  • There are TWO available time slots every month. I will publish time slots up to 3 months ahead so, if you want, you could even create-your-own, budget-friendly, monthly coaching program.

  • Please note: In these sessions, I won’t be able to support you with any thoughtful notes, customized resources, consistent follow-up, and accountability logging like I could through the intensive 12-week programs. (You can read the Coaching Disclaimer and Waiver here.)

  • Note for ongoing clients: I’ve got separate offerings for clients interested in ongoing work post the intensives. Bookings will be prioritized for non-client subscribers. This way we can support each other to ensure accessibility for those who needs it most.

I select the three social justice organizations from Indonesia, India, and US respectively as recipients of your Turn-On Sessions donation.

  • They’re chosen for their credible work towards social and reproductive justice goals, especially for non-dominant identities.

  • It’s also my way of sharing resources with cultures and peoples that I’ve continued to considerably benefit from.

I created Lush Letters all-in-one WITH Turn-On Sessions so that you and I…

  • remember that we can learn, reflect, act AND tangibly give support to and receive support from each other in sustaining our sexual thriving and fierce loving.

  • remember that the more we share the realities of our fiercely-sexual-and-loving human experiences, the more we can stay grounded, inclusive, AND wildly creative towards collective succulence.

  • remember that embodied joy and fierce loving, when shared, is RADICALLY powerful and HOT!!!

Lush Letters' Latest:

An image of a black and white, cartoon girl on a white background, crying into a handkerchief with up-turned, tear-drop shapes above her head in gold, blue, yellow, and brown, and more. This manual collage, titled
LL#07: When The Going Gets Tough, The Tough Gets Soft With Pleasure (to get going again)
By Rasa Estee - 27 October 2023 --- I know from experience that this approach works for me for over a decade, but I still forget. You see, while it's been the more effective approach for me, contrary to expectations, the path of soften...
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LL#06: That's What She Said (While Blushing And All)
By Rasa Estee - 02 September 2023 --- I imagine that'd be what my former intimate partners often say if/when telling stories about our interactions. If you're wondering what, why, and how, I even managed to say what I said with my tend...
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An image of a man with his back facing front, wearing a WW II Marine uniform, making a phone call with the word HELLO above him on a background of mostly pink-colored old stamps with men, butterflies, and animals on them. This manual collage, titled
LL#05: What You Said That One Time
By Rasa Estee - 21 August 2023 --- What you said that one time to someone could not only shift a previously-stagnant intimate situation for the better, but also last with them for the longest time. That's great and all... but also a bit overwhel...
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LL#04: How To Bed-Talk WWE-style
By Rasa Estee - 31 July 2023 --- What I'm about to tell you is a real practice that I do whenever I'm hit with a case of hyper-vigilance and hyper-protectiveness during intimate and/or sexual interactions which is giving and receiving compliments int...
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an image of a mostly light blue and light pink collage with an image of a femme-presenting and masculine-presenting persons having a bubble bath. 16 June 2020. Manual Collage. Art by Vantiani.
LL#03: In Defense of Blushing, Compliments, and WWE
By Rasa Estee - 07 July 2023 --- Let me tell you now, in all honesty (and in case we've yet to meet IRL), that my succulence is pretty much on the anxious and awkward side of the spectrum. I'm easily embarrassed by a cornucopia of...
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an image of a browning musical sheet with tear-shaped details in blue, yellow and dark red coming out of an image of a man wearing dessert tunic. Pretty Messiah, 2009. Manual Collage. Art by Vantiani.
LL#02: The Perfect Yum vs. The Yum-For-Now
By Rasa Estee - 16 June 2023 --- I'm all for you and I having the best of things during our time on this rock. Honestly, though, a lot of the times (and I mean A LOT), I could really do just quite well with the yum-for-now. (At this point,...
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That Dog Who Got Away #1,  2017.  Manual Collage. Art by Vantiani
LL#01: The First One MUST Be The Best One!
By Rasa Estee - 02 June 2023 --- That was my line of thought about this first edition of Lush Letters FOR MONTHS. Once again, I'm forgetting that many, if not most, first times in this life often leave so much to be desired. (Just like...
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