Desires are powerful. Having the support to identify specific, feasible goals for new patterns/habit of sexual expression is crucial to help you feel really enthusiastic and invested in the journey of realizing them.

Body/Mind inquiry is deeply vulnerable work as it can bring out previously helpful but now outdated coping mechanisms. Having dedicated step-by-step support and curated pleasure tools to help you resource and regulate your nervous system could GREATLY ease the process.

They can sneak in and drive us to non-stop hustle, hyper-individualism, and perfectionism that often leave us feeling burnt out, isolated, and perpetually flawed.

Having unbiased information on human sexuality, a compassionate understanding of your personal context, AND the strategy plus tools curated for your context can help build a stronger immune system to the BS.

This guide will help you set up a supportive environment for the 12-week ahead.

These are spacious, 2-hour sessions where we do most of our compassionate investigation, build a relational container and rapport, plus co-create the foundations for your new habits of sexual thriving.

These sessions would be thoughtfully ordered, organized and personalized to your specific goals. We will collaborate using curated methods, tools and practices to hone in on the kind of support you'll need each week as you evolve (including the right weekly daily-practice PDF-guides and resources.)

I will provide you with explanation and demonstrations during the weekly session so you can be clear on how to practice and what can be expected as a result. Your daily practices are the foundation to your habit-building.

It's accessible 24/7 and post-program. This is where you log your daily practices, have quick check-in chats with me, and find all of your Session Summaries, Daily Practice Guides and additional Resources. (No more emailing back-and-forth! Yay!)

I'll always be observing your practice log daily but will respond at least 2 days/week. :)

It's where we'll recap and celebrate your journey plus give you a personalized recommendation of tools and practices to help you maintain the new lasting habit.

Provided as needed (links to articles, videos, audios, book recommendations, and more).

Not only that you deserve it, but rest is also ESSENTIAL to the success of your journey. These days are spread out throughout the 12 weeks to give your nervous system some rest and allow for reflection that enriches and helps integration.

BEFORE any payment, you'll start off by booking a 2-hour Discovery Session with me so we can check if we're a good fit for each other.

When there's mutual enthusiasm, you'll be sent a link to make payment, fill a comprehensive Client Intake Form and sign a Client Agreement online.

And off we go!

In this 12-week program, we’ll begin with honing in on your key desires and the ultimate goal for your coaching journey.

In the first half of the journey, we’ll compassionately investigate the socio-cultural conditioning and personal narratives at play. Using multiple tools, you’ll learn to regulate your nervous system so you can soothe and nourish yourself through any arising discomfort.

In the next half, we’ll gradually introduce the new narratives and patterns that you desire. We’ll use our weekly sessions, daily practices and logging to inquire, support, observe, and tweak the process to ease you into regenerating a shift in new ways of thriving and loving.

We’ll weave in Rest and Grace days every week so that we’ll be moving at a thoughtful and steady pace for integration while centering rest, joy and A LOT of pleasure.

In the end, we’ll wrap up with bespoke recommendations and resources from me in a joyful celebration.

(Note: Additional sessions for continuing clients are available separately.)

I know that, like me, you carry the longing, grief, scars, and badges of your dreams and desires for a just and loving world.

I know that you're sex- and pleasure positive plus practice self-care as part of getting all of us a little bit more free.

You understand how inter-connected your liberation is with others', and, often worry about whether you're doing enough and sharing enough with your loved ones and communities.

The struggle for navigating personal sustainability while contributing to the sustainability of people and the planet is a REAL one.

So, I'm here to help you center and integrate pleasure and self-love into your love for others and the planet.

Just like you, I'm a fellow human with a vast capacity for pleasure and sexual thriving who's surviving a sea of broken and oppressive systems.

I grew up in a sex-negative country and religious upbringing, and still undoing all the internalized BS infecting my body, mind, emotions and relationships.

Like you, I'm also divesting and recovering from the hyper-capitalistic, meritocracy BS that keeps us hustling and alienating each other while also trying to make a living ethically.

So, I lead with an intersectional feminist lens to helps us identify the socialization at play to situate your personal challenges, responsibility and actualization within a vision of collective thriving.

I spent a decade in activism and another decade in the modern yoga and wellness industry. I've sold bread on a street-side, manage national organizations and international festivals, co-founded a now-defunct start-up, traveled the world and had multi-cultural long-term relationships.

From career-endings, severe perimenopause symptomps, relationship struggles and break-ups, major operations, creative stagnation, and living through the pandemic, the pleasure-based outlook, tools and practices have helped carry me through to the other side.

It continues to bring me a sense of aliveness, joy and confidence that feed into living in ways that are aligned with my values.  

I center rest, pleasure and joy in my life and business from planning until execution.

I resort to pleasure to soothe and replenish myself through daily challenges, major setbacks and celebrations of life.

Mostly, I'm thankful that it helped me maintain compassion, creativity, joy and integrity in how I treat myself and others.

I honor the brutally-wondrous, non-linear, nuanced, and contextual nature of the human experience. So, while I’m certified in the VITA Method, I bring in decades of relevant personal study and experiences to deliver a bespoke coaching experience to each client.

As your knowledgeable coach, relentless cheerleader, compassionate guide, and accountability partner, I’ll ask for your consent, outline boundaries, guide you in regulating your nervous system, tell you what you need to hear, and celebrate all of you.

This program will likely stretch you. It can be emotionally, mentally and physically revealing and laborious. Using a combination of tools, I’ll always meet you where you are — prioritizing your safety, wellbeing, and success.

To further solidify this, I created SUCCULENT to be spacious in duration and only open to 12 clients per round, with 3 rounds per year. I want to offer the sense of intimacy, trust, safety and effective personalization that only a 1:1 coaching container can offer.

While I'm systematically divesting from harmful gender binary constructs, my current scope of study and practice serves adult cis heterosexual women best. Our container is shame-free and non-judgmental. No topic is off-limits. I’m kink-friendly and supportive of diverse relational expressions (monogamous, open, polyamorous, and more).

I invite you to learn more about my methodology and boundaries, my teachers and formative influences plus my story and how I do business; get answers to your many questions; and get a glimpse of the experiences of other clients.

I come in with a commitment to trust, honesty, compassion, pleasure, and accountability. When you do the same, well, we're just gonna have a SUCCULENT time. Let’s go!

• You want to be able to regenerate succulence and passion in sex and life.

• You want to reconnect with sensual and sexual expressions and unwind numbness and shutdown to let go into wild abandon and unapologetic joy.

• You want to reclaim an embodied sense of safety and power to say no (and YES!) related to dating and sexual activity.

• You want to experience diverse orgasmic states by learning to delay climax.

• You want to be able to understand and unwind internalized shame and oppressive beliefs around sexuality and pleasure, and unwind resistance to freely communicate your desires.

• You want and thrive in a container with 1:1 dedicated, skilled support, and direct accountability.

• You feel happy to just focus on daily practices, and feel at peace knowing that you'll have a long weekly sessions where you can dump it all on me and be offered accurate modifications and feedback.

• You feel relieved about not having to spend too much extra time online so you can focus on quality time with existing loved ones and communities in real life.

• You believe that sex is wrong, shameful and/or sinful and you don’t want to change those beliefs.

• You don’t believe that women, and people in general, thrive with support, love and community.

• You're not open to share intimate information in order to do the inner work on sexual insecurities and emotional blocks.

• You believe that women’s sexuality and rights needs to be repressed and controlled.

• You're a strong believer of meritocracy and the idea that spirituality, healthcare and wellness are reserved for a special/chosen few.

I fully embrace and celebrate LGBTQIA2S++ expressions of sexuality. I'm also pretty clear of my current scope, lane and lived experience as a a cis-gendered and heterosexual woman.

Basically, the methodology, tools and practices that I learned and use in this coaching container allows you to work with your own body, sensual pleasures, sexual turn-ons, and sexuality in a way that empowers and supports your sexuality, independent of a partner and your sexual orientation. 

That being said, your sense of connection, safety and trust is paramount and fundamental to the success of your coaching journey.

So, if you identify as a part of the LGBTQIA2S++ community, I highly encourage you to engage with the many compassionate and masterful LGBTQIA2S++ sex coaches out there.

You can find a curated list here.

I fully support and celebrate anyone who identifies as a woman regardless of sex assignment at birth. I deeply owe my own sexual liberation to all the LGBTQIA2S++ fierce lovers that came before me, and I strive that my work continues to grow and honor their profound legacy.

While I'm systematically divesting from harmful gender binary constructs, my study and lived experience so far is mostly as a cis-gendered and heterosexual woman. 

That being said, I'm a coach who comes from mostly heteronormative teachers and systems. And this program was designed for people who are afab (assigned female at birth) and use gendered language.

As always, your sense of connection, safety and trust is paramount and fundamental to the success of your coaching journey.

So, if you identify as a trans woman, I highly encourage you to engage with the many compassionate and masterful LGBTQIA2S++ sex coaches and therapists out there.

You can find a curated list here.

Gigi Engle, certified sex educator and award-winning author, has the best answer to this question:

“Sex coaching generally focuses on helping you get the sex life you want. It helps you feel sexually empowered, confident in your body, and confident in yourself. It addresses a series of different concerns around sexuality including fear of intimacy, the sex education you may have missed, improvements in your sex life, and holistic sexual wellness - all through a sex-positive lens. It might be a therapeutic process, but it’s not therapy.

Sex therapy is done with a person trained in psychotherapy, specializing in sexual concerns. This is not simple. It goes beyond “What G-Spot wand is best?” and involves talking about and exploring your experiences (both past and present) to help you get a better understanding of what is happening in your sex life and the reasons why.”

My coaching methodology uses multiple approaches of talk and reflective processes, intentional sensual self-pleasuring and masturbation practices, meditation, and using sound, breath, and movements. You will work in weekly session with me as well as with daily practices at home. All with the aim to understand what lies behind your desires and help you learn how to regulate your nervous system as you rewire yourself towards new narratives, patterns and habits — creating a conducive environment for lasting change.

Thank you for asking :) The answer is: no, it does not.

Coaching is not a substitute for working with a licensed therapist/trauma specialist. While my coaching acknowledges and honors the possibility of trauma exposure (trauma-informed), it does not lead with, diagnose or treat trauma response.

Here are helpful directories to find licensed therapists and sex therapists and educators.

If you’re in crisis, please immediately contact your local emergency hotlines.

Nope. Zero nudity, unwanted exposure, guided sexual touch, flirtation, shaming, or moral judgments.

All weekly sessions would be done online via Zoom video. All process will be explained beforehand for your consent and only proceed with your consent at any given time. You’re encouraged to let me know your level of comfort, tell me to pause or stop altogether at any given time.

While always fully clothed, we will be engaging in emotionally revealing conversations, methods involving role-play with me and yourself, and breath and physical movements. It’s key that I’m able to witness you during these process to be able to support you accordingly.

Demos involving body parts and genitals will be done by showing image and videos by models. Feel free to ask me about any specific concerns.

Due to the nature of the subject, experiencing moments of arousal is absolutely natural and common. These are informative moments and you’re most encouraged to tell me so they can inform our sessions. Feel free to ask me about any specific concerns.

Nope. All of your essential practice guides and materials are already included. There will be links to recommended additional resources but they're either available for free or to buy at your own discretion.

Here is a list of every-day items for your weekly sessions and daily home practices:

• a private, comfortable, and safe space with speedy internet connection for our weekly sessions on Zoom.

• any of your usual comfort items: pillows, blankets, beverages, etc.

• skin-safe, hypo-allergenic massage oils (almond, coconut, etc.)

• pieces of blank paper and a marker.

AB-SO-LUTE-LY. Book your Discovery Session and add a note with the amount and method of payment you can commit to while still feeling safe in your finances. Let’s do this!

FYI, the Discovery Session will determine if we’re a good fit, and I’ll be prioritizing fee-reduction requests from people with non-dominant identities.

No. If you'd like to appreciate my time, you have the option to donate what-you-can to credible non-profits listed on the booking page. Sharing resources IS one of my many pleasure practices.

If you'd like to tip me, you're most welcome to drop it into My Tip Jar and thank you!

There will be no refunds for donations and tips.

For more questions, please visit our comprehensive FAQs and Resources sections.

Your information and journey will never be shared with others without your written consent.

Even though nothing is 100% safe on the internet, your online Journey Log is password-protected and can only be accessed by you and me.

I’d be requesting your consent to whether your name, story and coaching journey could be shared in my newsletter, online and offline marketing materials anonymously or openly or even at all. Joining a program involves signing a Coach-Client Agreement in which you can specify how you’d like your information be treated. Your safety and privacy are paramount.

Yes when my schedule allows. Feel free to email me with your desires, desired schedule, and any questions.

Condensed DIY courses can be helpful indeed. I've had my fair share of them myself.

One of the most important lessons I've learned about personal growth is that taking on an intentional concerted effort for any lasting changes can be emotionally, mentally and physically revealing and taxing.

Certainly, this differs with different people but it's important to understand that this has to do with so much more than an individual's will power, motivation, or grit.

Creating lasting changes involves more than just having all the right information and how-tos.

It also involves a powerful level of self-inquiry and consistent practice that adds a significant extra load to our nervous system that is already tasked with dealing with the joys and stresses of daily life.

That's why plenty of us had experienced burnout and had to stop mid-process despite having the best of intentions and commitments.

I learned that focusing on limited but clear goals, personalized practices, and gradually increasing our capacity to self-regulate our nervous system and co-regulate with others in good time is key.

Based on my own experience and experience with clients, this bodes well for our capacity to achieve change and maintain said change through the other changes in our lives. It's a boon to our overall creativity and resourcefulness in life.

That's why I created my programs to be spacious in duration and only open to 12 clients per round, with 3 rounds per year. And, using a combination of tools, I’ll always meet you where you are — prioritizing your safety, wellbeing, and success.

All because centering rest, pleasure, and joy in my approach is not only revolutionary and nourishing. It's also effective.

It's in the works. You can pay in full or break it up in installments via PayPal. Fee free to discuss other methods of payment that might work better for you in our Discovery Session or an email.



Gratis? No.

The most accessible way to work with me is through Lush Letters + Turn-On Sessions where you can book a 2-hour session by donating what-you-can to non-profits. The donation amount options usually starts from $5.

I hear you and this is a valid possibility. So, thank you for asking.

If it is due to challenging external circumstances outside of our fit and your desire to continue, I invite you to discuss it with me so we can find a solution together (Fyi, I once coached someone in their car during their work break because that was the reality we had to work with :)).

If it is due to the program and/or me not being a good fit for you, I’d fully understand your choice and will gladly direct you to other professionals if that’s what you desire.

My refund policy:

I believe that a safe exit option is foundational to any consensual commitment. At the same time, as a solo small business owner, I’m only financially-able to offer refunds as a very, very last resort and on a case-by-case situation.

If you paid in full, I’ll fairly calculate and refund you ONLY for the remaining program duration that you’ve yet undertaken. My calculation and refund amount will be indisputable and final.

If you’re paying in monthly installments, you will ONLY be charged up to the months you've undertaken (e.g.: If you're choosing to stop by week 6 or in the middle of month #2, you'll only pay for monthly installment #1 and #2). My calculation and refund amount will be indisputable and final.